97 :: An Episode for Men and Those Confused By Them with Robert Kandell

Episode Description

Robert Kandell (previously featured on EP 72 of Ignite Intimacy) has been on a journey from the corporate world to entrepreneurship having built an international 8-figure business based on relationships, intimacy and sex before launching a coaching practice and now authoring his revolutionary new book, unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Who Are Confused By Them.

I’m thrilled to have Robert on for a follow-up conversation to jam on a topic that is very near and dear to my heart, MEN! Masculinity! What is it, why men are confusing, what’s going on for men internally, patriarchy, external influences and the harmony and connection that is possible when we all take responsibility for ourselves, our relationships and our choices.

Join Robert and I for a powerful conversation about Men, Masculinity and sorting through it all on Episode 97 of Ignite Intimacy!

 

Robert Kandell – BIO

Robert Kandell headshotAuthor and host of the highly successful podcast, Tuff Love, Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness.
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92 :: Cycles + Sex with Lauren Bille

Episode Description Lauren Bille is a powerful, gentle, fiery, dynamic, beautiful and true soul. She is on a mission to transform the current societal, racial and gender based paradigms here on planet earth and I am sooo grateful she’s stepped up to the plate. Lauren and I have distinct similarities in our life experiences and some of the ways we’ve approached dating, relating and our sexuality in the past. Sitting with her was like looking in the mirror at times! This is a powerful and deep conversation that will take you on the journey of a woman who broke out of the addiction and depression of her teen years to having a powerful voice as a grown woman in areas and arenas that impact all of us. Join entrepreneur and founder of Cycles + Sex, Lauren Bille and I as we explore the realms of self worth, being chosen vs. choosing, personal power, freedom, #metoo, responsibility, consent and so much more on Episode 92 of Ignite Intimacy! Lauren Bille – BIO Passionate about racial, gender and economic equity, building meaningful communities and shifting cultural paradigms, Lauren co-founded CYCLES + SEX – the destination for all things reproductive health and sex. They intersect education, tools, … Continue reading

77 :: Sex Ed with GlamourPuss, M.D. Miss Olivia Richman!

Episode Description I met Olivia Richman in a 7 month leadership training program that we’re both in at the moment her in NYC. This woman is a powerhouse. She is so bright, full of light and brings power, strength, confidence and humor to her YouTube channel GlamourPuss, M.D. to share Sex Ed with teens and adults. Olivia decided to launch GlamourPuss, M.D. when she realized how little factual information was available to her younger cousins about sex, their bodies, and issues for younger girls like how to put in a tampon. I highly recommend this episode for teens and adults! It is fun, insightful and witty. Enjoy Episode 77 with GlamourPuss, M.D. Olivia Richman!! Olivia Richman – BIO Olivia Richman is a 3rd year medical student at American University of Antigua College of Medicine. Olivia started a YouTube channel in August 2017, GlamourPuss, M.D., in which she is educating adolescents on mind, body and sexual health. She releases videos once a week on Saturday mornings and in the future, Olivia will be creating videos about empowered relationships, healthy eating, exercise and inside a teen’s life. Website Youtube   Resources: “What does the External Female Genitalia Look Like?” – GlamourPuss, M.D. … Continue reading

75 :: A Conversation About Boundaries + Female Anatomy + Erotic Encounters with Sheri Winston

Episode Description Sheri Winston is a Goddess Powerhouse. Her journey as a midwife led her to develop and teach some of the most powerful and groundbreaking work on the exploration of the female anatomy and female sexual pleasure. This conversation is a deep dive into the power of setting boundaries. Sheri shares with us her process for discovering what your boundaries are and how to stick to them when your in the midst of erotic encounters and your brain is like mush. Sheri also shares in depth about the female anatomy and the many layers and levels to our own potentials for pleasure. Episode 75 of Ignite Intimacy is powerful and juicy… you’re going to love it!! Sheri Winston – BIO Wholistic Sexuality teacher, author, and founder of the Intimate Arts Center, Sheri Winston offers pleasure-centered sex-ed for grown-ups with a wide variety of practical and transformational intimate arts education. She delights in inspiring people to have a lot more pleasure, fun and fulfillment! Website Resources: Intimate Arts Center Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice Spiritual Midwifery by Ina May Gaskin   … Continue reading

73 :: Guy-Q + Dating + Choosing the Right Mate with Kongit Farrell

Episode Description Description: Kongit Farrell is a Goddess Powerhouse, no two ways about it (just take a look at her bio!!) She’s been taking a stand to empower her clients and community to form and sustain healthy, empowered relationships with ourselves and each other.On this episode Kongit and I go deep into clarifying the type of relationships we want, doing the work we need to do in order to attract and sustain those relationships and fine tuning our ‘Guy-Q’ so that we are clear about and courageous enough to say yes to what works and no to what doesn’t. If you’re interested in the world of dating, relationship and ‘Guy-Q,’ allowing others (and ourselves) to be where we are in our relating while being powerful to either embrace or walk away from a situation that doesn’t serve us, then this episode is for you! There are some juicy tips so tune in for my conversation with Kongit Farrell on Ignite Intimacy! Kongit Farrell – BIO Kongit Farrell is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, her therapeutic approach rooted in CBT, Narrative and Solution-Focused methodologies. She is an EMDR therapist and is completing advanced course work in Sex Therapy at The … Continue reading

72 :: Pleasure + Infidelity + Truth Telling with Robert Kandell

Episode Description Robert Kandell is a powerful stand for Men having a transformation in the world of relationships, romance, truth telling, sex and love. This is important and essential work because, from my estimation, men are largely demonized, emasculated and kept out of the conversation. Join us for an energizing, empowering and thought provoking episode focused on pleasure, permission, truth telling, infidelity, forgiveness and relationship styles on Episode 72 of Ignite Intimacy! Robert Kandell – BIO An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, Robert Kandell has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness. He is the host of the highly successes podcast, Tuff Love. To learn more about Robert and his revolutionary work, visit www.RobertKandell.com Links: Facebook Twitter Instagram YouTube LinkedIn Resources: Fierce Honesty – How To Boldly Transform Your Relationships + Your Life – Article by Robert Kandell No More Mister Nice Guy – Dr. Robert A. Glover End of Men – Hanna Rosen The War Against Boys – Christina Hoff Sommers … Continue reading

71 :: Juicebox, Sex Advice + Future of Sex with Brianna Rader

Episode Description Brianna Rader is an entrepreneur, sex tech innovator and founder of the Juicebox APP whose sex education organization at the University of Tennessee was shut down by state legislature for being too risqué. Join us as we have an engaging conversation about new APP Juicebox (giving you access to sex and relationship therapists on the go), sex advice, toys + lube, communication before, during and after (of course) and the future of sex on Episode 72 of Ignite Intimacy!! Brianna Rader – BIO Brianna Rader is a sex education advocate well-known for starting a comprehensive sex education organization at the University of Tennessee that led to her being condemned by the state legislature. She received a Masters in Global Health from UCSF and then created Juicebox, an iOS app that pairs you with professional sex and relationship coaches from a network of certified and vetted experts. App link Website link Promo code for Juicebox Ignite Intimacy listeners enter the IGNITE code will get 60% off your first week of Juicebox! References Uber Lube Sliquid Eva vibrator Cliteracy by Sophia Wallace … Continue reading

59 :: Sexual Freedom + Erotic Blueprints with Jaiya and Ian

Episode Description Jaiya and Ian are a powerful and courageous couple exploring the depths and edges of sexual and erotic freedom, relationship fulfillment and personal liberation. In this episode we discuss energetic orgasms, how Jaiya and Ian are cleaning the slate of the last 10 years of their relationship in what they call a relationship vapasana, and their mission of giving people around the world the experience of sexual and erotic freedom. Jaiya and Ian share the 5 Erotic Blueprints with us and four ways to work with these blueprints. This is a POWERFUL episode that will get at the core of any shame, blame and misunderstandings you may have experienced or dished out in your life around sex and our erotic nature. Enjoy and go to http://eroticbreakthrough.com/ignite to take the quiz to discover your erotic blueprint! Jaiya – BIO For over 2 decades of practice as a Somatic Sexologist and Sexological Bodyworker Jaiya immersed herself in the study of turn-ons, ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics, and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment. Through observation and clinical research she discovered a map of arousal that reveals your specific … Continue reading

42 :: Diversity + Inclusion + Sex Ed with Dirty Lola

Episode Description On this week’s episode we’re going in on a sex + diversity conversation with the one and only Dirty Lola, edutainer and creator of the live sex Q&A, variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go. We discuss the need for more diversity at sex events, how founders, hosts and producers who claim they’re inclusive can actually be real about it and touch on serious issues like racism, white privilege, and colorism. Join us as we encourage everyone to educate themselves on the real meanings of diversity and inclusion. The time is now.. especially for the white community to step up and take action. Here are a few ways to get active.. educate yourself by reading articles, books, listening to podcasts like ‘Scene on Radio’s’ series ‘Seeing White,’ have conversations with people in your and other communities, and definitely speak up when you see, hear or experience racism, micro aggressions or discrimination first hand. Tune in to Episode 42, Diversity + Inclusion + Sex Ed with Dirty Lola!! Dirty Lola: BIO Dirty Lola has spent the last six years sharing her personal journey into body- and sex-positivity, kink and polyamory through shows, workshops, and bachelorette parties. Her sex positive … Continue reading

32 :: Don’t Yuck Other People’s Yumm with Andrea Barrica

Episode Description This week on the Ignite Intimacy podcast, my sistar Sarah and I get filled in on all the juicy details of Andrea Barrica’s passion for reproductive justice and the birth of her online shame-free platform for pleasure education, O.School. Accepting the fluidity of sexuality from an early age, but pushing it aside to focus on her education, Andrea’s path has now brought her to create O.School and look into the future of sex and sex education. O.School is a judgement free online space to choose your own sex education adventure, with a diverse group of instructors leading courses ranging from communication and consent, to raising sex positive kids, to introduction to kink and fetish. Regardless of physical, cultural, locational, or educational differences, live streaming and live chat provide everyone with an inclusive, safe, and supportive community in which to unlearn shame and live in the desire the way it works for them. Andrea Barrica – BIO Andrea Barrica is no stranger to business ventures. After co-founding an accounting and tax platform at a very early age, she went on to have a hand in one of the world’s most active global seed funds. Now she combines her technological … Continue reading