68 :: Frog Farmers, Belly Fat, Emasculation + Misinterpretations with Alison Armstrong

Episode Description Alison Armstrong has been studying men, relationships and romance for over two decades after a friend told her she was a ‘Frog Farmer.’ Her book, ‘The Queen’s Code,’ focusing on the emasculation of men and how to go from a frog farmer to someone who turns frogs into Kings, has been revolutionary for women and men around the world. Alison’s work has impacted thousands of people through her online community at UnderstandMen.com where she has programs and ongoing materials that help people like me (and, maybe, you?!) crack the code on dating, romance, communication and truly creating the love lives we desire. This is a RAPID FIRE conversation where we cover a LOT in a short time frame. Enjoy it, share it with your friends and check out Alison’s programs via her website below! Alison Armstrong – BIO Alison Armstrong, author, educator, and creator of the widely acclaimed “Understanding Men” and “Understanding Women” transformational online series, asks the question: “What if no one is misbehaving — including you?”  She explores the good reasons behind the behavior of men and women such as fundamental differences in the ways we think, act and communicate. She offers simple, partnership-based, solutions to improve our … Continue reading

67 :: Female Choice Paradigm, Female Sexuality + Living Polyamorous with Kenya of JujuMama.com

Episode Description Strap on your seat belt for this one because you are in for something special!!! Last week we heard from Kenya’s husband Rakhem on Episode 66. This week we hear from his Wife, business and life partner Kenya about her journey from embracing the feminine after discovering uterine cancer with the birth of her first child, to the choice to open her marriage and be a catalyst for relating in her community and in the world. This is a DYNAMIC conversation that you definitely want to listen to no matter which gender or non gender you align with! We are diving into the Female Choice Paradigm, the Sexuality of the Human Species, Living Polyamorous, Healing Trauma, Keelung it Real and more on Episode 67 of Ignite Intimacy!! Kenya Stevens – BIO Kenya K. Stevens is a relationships expert, love coach, best-selling author, wife, and mother of three. A graduate of Howard University in Washington D.C. she has a degree in Education/ Child Psychology. She now lives in the mountains of North Carolina raising three children with her husband, Carl and practicing yoga, breathing, meditation, tantra, ancient spiritual systems and metaphysical thought. Contact: JujuMama Love Academy … Continue reading

66 :: Open Relating, Female Choice + Gender Harmonics with Rakhem Seku

Episode Description Rakhem Seku got his sexual education like many of us, from porn and the movies. This is what drove him as a sexual being. When he married his wife at 25 their sex life was OK, maybe a C. 10 years into their marriage they started studying tantra, which opened things up for them sexually and otherwise. For Rakhem, tantra also began a journey of him expanding and deepening his understanding of what women desire, and who women are as sexual beings. Join us for a powerful and juicy conversation about men, women, sexuality, relating, honesty, dispelling myths and having it all on Episode 66 of Ignite Intimacy! Rakhem Seku – BIO Carl E. Stevens, Jr. (aka Rakhem Seku) is a metaphysician, life and love coach, and author. Through the JujuMama Love Academy, Rakhem and his wife Kenya teach the Bagua Astrology System (BAS) and applies metaphysical concepts to support people in creating the lives they desire. Married over twenty years with 3 children, Rakhem has been on numerous television and radio shows and has a degree in Industrial Engineering and an MBA in finance. Contact: Email: mail@jujumama.com Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/rakhemseku Website: http://www.jujumama.com JujuMama Love Academy is located at: https://jla.jujumama.com/?affcode=12691_hqk4yz_w Resources:    Rakhem’s … Continue reading

65 :: Liquid Free Dating + Being a Feminine Weapon with Christina Weber

Episode Description Today’s episode features entrepreneur, dating industry disrupter and Feminine Weapon, Christina Weber. I learned about Christina through a friend who encouraged me to attend her annual Feminine Weapon event in Los Angeles on January 30th 2018. As we discuss men, dating, romance and sexuality in this episode, and our desire to bring men more deeply into these important conversations, Christina shares how she received a ton of backlash for this year’s Feminine Weapon Day focus, ‘For the Love of Men,’ from women in a popular Facebook group, and how she handled it. Tune in for a real conversation about liquid free dating, dispelling shame around dating and relating, bringing men into the conversation and being a Feminine Weapon on Episode 65 of Ignite Intimacy! Christina Weber – BIO Christina Weber is a powerful gift to the world, sharing her insights about business and strategy while still maintaining her feminine approach to life. Ever-evolving, Christina created Feminine Weapon Day as a way to amplify her beauty and power, not just for herself, but for women everywhere and humanity as a whole. When she is not focused on Feminine Weapon, she facilitates deep connections between men and women through her … Continue reading

64 :: Micro Cheating, Mindfulness + Sexual Harassment with Dr. Jenn Gunsaullus

Episode Description Dr. Jenn is a powerhouse woman on a mission to bring mindfulness to sexuality so that we can transform our relationship with ourselves and each other for healthier, more fulfilling and empowered relations and experiences. In this conversation we do a deep dive into sexual harassment, consent, mindfulness and micro cheating during a dynamic and passionate meeting of the hearts and minds. Tune in for this juicy conversation on Episode 64, Micro Cheating, Mindfulness + Sexual Harassment on the Ignite Intimacy podcast hotline! Dr Jenn Gunsaullus – BIO Jennifer Gunsaullus, PhD, sociologist and sex coach, is a frequent speaker about couples intimacy, sexual consent, healthy relationships, erotic play, and mindful sex. She has presented two TEDx Talks, is a writer on sex and relationships, and a recurring intimacy expert on the morning news. She is one of the founders of Sex Positive San Diego and the creator of World Sexual Health Day—San Diego. In addition, as a martial arts practitioner, she was recently promoted to black belt in Korean karate—so watch out for this badass doctor! Website: http://www.DrJennsDen.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifer.gunsaullus Twitter: https://twitter.com/DrJennsDen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjennsden/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drjennsden … Continue reading

63 :: Ageism, Sex + Dating with Walker Thornton

Episode Description I recently received a request from one of our Ignite Intimacy listeners to have a conversation focused on ageism and dating. This woman is in her mid-60’s and has been experiencing some dating challenges based on her age. In response I reached out to former guest, Walker Thornton, who is an expert, advocate and author focused on women’s sexuality. I knew she’d have some juicy tips and insights for us! Join Walker and I as we dive into the topic of ageism, online dating, sex and communication. Walker shares some key tips for how to stay safe when engaging with online dating and how to explore and engage with potential partners that align with your desires and values. Walker Thornton – BIO Walker Thornton is a sex educator, speaker, and sexual health writer. Her mission is to help women embrace their sexuality in a way that feels comfortable at each stage of life. Her writing has appeared on the American Sexual Health Association website, Huffington Post, Better After 50, Senior Planet, and other sites. She is the Sexual Health Columnist for Midlife Boulevard and writes about midlife sexuality at Kinkly.com. Walker currently serves on the Sexuality and Aging Consortium … Continue reading

62 :: The Tao of Dating (for Women + Men) with Ali Binazir

Episode Description Ali Binazir was a ‘late bloomer’ and certified intellectual who had trouble dating through college. He thought that being nice would win over women and make him a happy man. After college, and many trials and errors, he began realizing the behaviors that were standing between himself and the romantic experiences of his dreams. Ali wrote two books about dating, the first for ‘thinking’ men like himself and the second for ‘smart’ women who are having trouble attracting the right men. In this episode he shares dating and happiness tips for all humans as many of us navigate the digital world of dating. Ali Binazir – BIO Happiness Engineer, clinical hypnotherapist, speaker, and author of the highest rated dating book on Amazon for 4 years, “The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible”, Ali is a highly educated expert based in California. Check Ali online at: TaoOfDating.com HappinessEngineering.com blogs.harvard.edu/abinazir Email Ali at: dralib@taoofdating.com Resources: The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Gide to Being Absolutely Irresistible – Ali Binazir Shoe Dog – Nike Founder Phil Knight … Continue reading

61 :: Uniting the Masculine + Feminine and Being Human with Christabel Jessica

Episode Description Christabel Jessica created a beautiful and powerful card deck focused on uniting the divine masculine and feminine energies. When I was introduced to her by a friend I knew we had to get on the line and jam about this important topic!   Before our recording Christabel pulled a few cards and gives us a live reading on the call!   We dive into topics like energetic clearing after intimate encounters, allowing ourselves the space to be human and experience our emotions fully, creating safe spaces physically and energetically and the importance of exploring and expressing both masculine and feminine energies in who we be and how we show up in life.   Join us as we discuss uniting masculine and feminine energy, the duality of life, love and sex, and energetic clearings with spiritual teacher Christabel Jessica on Episode 61, Uniting the Masculine + Feminine and Being Human. Christabel Jessica – BIO Christabel is a spiritual teacher and healer with a passion for supporting anyone in a sacred relationship and on a spiritual path. She makes YouTube videos teaching spiritual information based in practically and compassion! As a spiritual practitioner, she is now dedicated to assisting people in undertanding how to heal the troubled … Continue reading

60 :: Embracing Self Love with Kelsey Avalon

Episode Description Kelsey Avalon grew up surrounded by mystics, healers and seers in her immediate family, who’s origin is of the Maori tribe from New Zealand. Her upbringing led her to travel extensively around the world studying ancient rights and rituals, ceremonies and traditions. Our conversation is a deep dive into the self, self love, self focus in order to create more intimacy in our lives and attract the love and romance that we desire. This is a deep and real exploration into how our actions, intention and energies impact our lives and that of the whole. Kelsey Avalon – BIO Now based in the UK, counsellor, bruja, and author Kelsey Avalon has her roots deep in the Maori-Australian culture of folk wisdom and native healing. Practicing the Maori art of Korero in her client practice, Kelsey offers counsel, Tarot, astrology, and bespoke therapeutic sessions. TheKorero.com Kelsey’s book ‘Moon Magic’ … Continue reading

59 :: Sexual Freedom + Erotic Blueprints with Jaiya and Ian

Episode Description Jaiya and Ian are a powerful and courageous couple exploring the depths and edges of sexual and erotic freedom, relationship fulfillment and personal liberation. In this episode we discuss energetic orgasms, how Jaiya and Ian are cleaning the slate of the last 10 years of their relationship in what they call a relationship vapasana, and their mission of giving people around the world the experience of sexual and erotic freedom. Jaiya and Ian share the 5 Erotic Blueprints with us and four ways to work with these blueprints. This is a POWERFUL episode that will get at the core of any shame, blame and misunderstandings you may have experienced or dished out in your life around sex and our erotic nature. Enjoy and go to http://eroticbreakthrough.com/ignite to take the quiz to discover your erotic blueprint! Jaiya – BIO For over 2 decades of practice as a Somatic Sexologist and Sexological Bodyworker Jaiya immersed herself in the study of turn-ons, ancient erotic rituals, tantric sex, mastery of sensual touch, pure erotic play, kinky dynamics, and the biology and psychology of attraction and sexual fulfillment. Through observation and clinical research she discovered a map of arousal that reveals your specific … Continue reading