Ignite Intimacy Podcast




A podcast diving deep into the realms of INTIMACY, Romantic Relationships, SEXUALITY, and the plethora of issues, aha’s, TABOOS, Fantasies, and psychological impacts and many layers of these topics including: redefining our relationship to Intimacy; JEALOUSY; Infidelity; the secret sauce to Long-Term Fulfilling Relationships; OPEN Relationships; Polyamory; Physical, Psychic, & Spiritual Attachments; MONOGAMY; Self-Pleasuring; the Freedom that comes with Transparency; Honesty vs. Dishonesty; the long term impact of KEEPING SECRETS; Communication; DESIRE; Chasing vs. Attracting – and more!

We will be featuring special guests, experts, and everyday people who’ve got stories to tell and opinions to share about Love, Romance, Intimacy, and Sexuality. The point is to get this conversation out there in a much bigger way. This is not a typical ‘interview’ style program – it’s an ongoing conversation. My guests and I will go back and forth and roll with the energy and topics as they present themselves.



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Latest Episode

Top Ten Episodes of Ignite Intimacy in 2018!

Holy Moly! We’re here at the end of December. This year has been a pivotal and powerful year!

And, we are SO CLOSE to our 100th episode of the Ignite Intimacy podcast!

2018 has brought us some of the most unique episodes to date, thousands of new listeners, and so much love, connection and new information!

As the year comes to a close we’re inviting you to join us in revisiting the ten most popular episodes of 2018. Please enjoy them over again and share with your friends and loved ones!

Giving thanks for all of your support this year!


Episode 67 :: Female Choice Paradigm, Female Sexuality + Living Polyamorous with Kenya Stevens

This episode finds me diving deep with the dynamic Kenya Stevens into female choice, sexuality, polyamory, choosing to embrace femininity and being a catalyst for new relational paradigms.


Episode 72 :: Pleasure + Infidelity + Truth Telling with Robert Kandell

An energizing, empowering and thought provoking episode focused on pleasure, permission, truth telling, infidelity, forgiveness and relationship styles.


Episode 71 :: Juicebox, Sex Advice + Future of Sex with Brianna Rader

A conversation with sex education advocate Brianna Rader about sex tech, toys, communication, and the future of sex.


Episode 75 :: A Conversation About Boundaries + Female Anatomy + Erotic Encounters with Sheri Winston

Join wholistic sexuality teacher and author Sheri Winston and me as we go deep into the conversation about boundaries, how to develop them and live by them, the layers and levels of the female anatomy and staying powerful during erotic encounters


Episode 79 :: Orgasmic Meditation, Pleasure + Climax with Marga Berlinski

Marga Berlinski and I have a conversation between the US and The Netherlands about pleasure as access to creating what we desire, exploring new frontiers, getting vulnerable and the difference between orgasm and climax


Episode 56 :: Healing Trauma + Defining Your Sexual Pleasure with Kristina Campbell

We dive into healing sexual trauma, defining our pleasure, communication in the bedroom and the power of forgiveness with intimacy coach Kristina Campbell.


Episode 53 :: The Clitoris Is Not a DJ Booth, Vagina Visions and other musings with Morgen Love

Morgen Love and I are having a straight up sexy conversation about communication, consent, our desires, proper clitoral stimulation, and more as Morgen reads her musings for us live on the line.


Episode 70 :: Consensuality + Slow Play + Safer Sex Foreplay Convos with Rachael Maddox

Rachael Maddox who gives us the goods on healing trauma and learning to say no in powerful and sexy ways.


Episode 59 :: Sexual Freedom + Erotic Blueprints with Jaiya and Ian

This episode features somatic sexologist Jaiya and her partner Ian who are exploring the depths and edges of sexual and erotic freedom, relationship fulfillment and personal liberation.


And our #1 Episode of 2018…

Episode 68 :: Frog Farmers, Belly Fat, Emasculation + Misinterpretations with Alison Armstrong

A rapid fire conversation with men and relationship expert, Alison Armstrong as we go deep into several juicy topics including Frog Farmers, the Emasculation of Men, Misinterpretations in dating and romance, and more!


You can also catch all of our Ignite Intimacy conversations on iTunes, Spotify, Libsyn, Google, Stitcher and YouTube! See you in the new year!

98 :: Sexual Dynamics in the Workplace with Anita Teresa

Episode Description

Anita Teresa began exploring sex and education in the medical space after realizing that healthcare professionals were missing core pieces of sex education in their day to day work.

After running a very successful and in demand Sex and Medicine Summit Anita pivoted her work to focus on sex dynamics in the workplace. With the #MeToo movement creating a platform for victims to step forward, be heard and supported with their experiences of sexual assault at work, Anita continues her work developing shame free environments where victims and perpetrators can share their experiences, get educated and empowered in their healing process.

Join Sexuality Educator and Coach Anita Teresa and I as we explore sexuality in the workplace, sexual harassment, sexual health, communication, self expression and shame in Episode 98 of Ignite Intimacy!

Anita Teresa – BIO

Anita TeresaAnita Teresa is an Integrative Sexuality Educator and Coach with a private practice based in NYC.  She Founded the Sex & Medicine Summit in 2015 and does on-going programming around the topics of embodiment, healthy sexuality,  and the future of male/female leadership.  



97 :: An Episode for Men and Those Confused By Them with Robert Kandell

Episode Description

Robert Kandell (previously featured on EP 72 of Ignite Intimacy) has been on a journey from the corporate world to entrepreneurship having built an international 8-figure business based on relationships, intimacy and sex before launching a coaching practice and now authoring his revolutionary new book, unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Who Are Confused By Them.

I’m thrilled to have Robert on for a follow-up conversation to jam on a topic that is very near and dear to my heart, MEN! Masculinity! What is it, why men are confusing, what’s going on for men internally, patriarchy, external influences and the harmony and connection that is possible when we all take responsibility for ourselves, our relationships and our choices.

Join Robert and I for a powerful conversation about Men, Masculinity and sorting through it all on Episode 97 of Ignite Intimacy!


Robert Kandell – BIO

Robert Kandell headshotAuthor and host of the highly successful podcast, Tuff Love, Robert Kandell has been helping men find themselves for fourteen years. An expert in interpersonal communication and relationships, he has helped thousands of students find a more balanced, energized life with better relationships, more sex and more happiness.



Twitter: @RobertKandell

Instagram: @Robert.Kandell


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I have always been fascinated by the world of relational experiences. Wondering what makes two people come together, break apart, stay single, attract many suitors and long term relationships, or none at all, what makes some venture into the world of polyamory, while others were born into a culture and society where polygamy is common and if not a choice, something they learn to live with. I’ve been meditating on these topics for quite some time now when in January 2016 an energy larger than me began pulling me forward to explore all of these topics (and more) in an interactive and audio based conversation I could share with the public. Coming off of my first ever 6 month ‘man-pause’ (not menopause…. a MAN pause) I figured it was the perfect time to launch the Ignite Intimacy podcast!

What I believe to be true based on my experiences and conversations with others is that is that we as a collective society are not having enough transparent conversations about these topics, issues and desires. By bringing this conversation to a larger audience, with the intention to create more transparency and dialogue around these topics, there is a profound evolution that can (and will) occur. I know that our world will be a better place when more of us choose to stop living within the framework of a ‘lie’ and live in alignment with who we truly are at the core. I look forward to seeing a world where more of us choose to live ‘out’ about who we are as relational, intimate and sexual creatures, than ‘in’ where many choose to hide behind the guise of what is acceptable by society’s or our community’s standards. I have a feeling that when we can level the playing field and realize that most likely every human being has been impacted in some way shape or form by some aspect of this conversation, even if by a twinge of jealousy, that our world, and our relationships will benefit tremendously. 


This podcast is for informational purposes only. Nothing in the podcast constitutes medical or other professional advice. Guests of this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Their beliefs and views may not reflect our own. Ignite Intimacy deals with adult subject matter that may offend or trigger some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. You may not edit, modify, or redistribute this podcast. Ignite Intimacy assumes no liability for any of your activities in connection with this podcast or for your use of this podcast in connection with your website, computer, or playback device.