Ignite Intimacy Podcast




A podcast diving deep into the realms of INTIMACY, Romantic Relationships, SEXUALITY, and the plethora of issues, aha’s, TABOOS, Fantasies, and psychological impacts and many layers of these topics including: redefining our relationship to Intimacy; JEALOUSY; Infidelity; the secret sauce to Long-Term Fulfilling Relationships; OPEN Relationships; Polyamory; Physical, Psychic, & Spiritual Attachments; MONOGAMY; Self-Pleasuring; the Freedom that comes with Transparency; Honesty vs. Dishonesty; the long term impact of KEEPING SECRETS; Communication; DESIRE; Chasing vs. Attracting – and more!

We will be featuring special guests, experts, and everyday people who’ve got stories to tell and opinions to share about Love, Romance, Intimacy, and Sexuality. The point is to get this conversation out there in a much bigger way. This is not a typical ‘interview’ style program – it’s an ongoing conversation. My guests and I will go back and forth and roll with the energy and topics as they present themselves.



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Latest Episode

62 :: The Tao of Dating (for Women + Men) with Ali Binazir

Episode Description

Ali Binazir was a ‘late bloomer’ and certified intellectual who had trouble dating through college. He thought that being nice would win over women and make him a happy man.
After college, and many trials and errors, he began realizing the behaviors that were standing between himself and the romantic experiences of his dreams.
Ali wrote two books about dating, the first for ‘thinking’ men like himself and the second for ‘smart’ women who are having trouble attracting the right men. In this episode he shares dating and happiness tips for all humans as many of us navigate the digital world of dating.

Ali Binazir – BIO

Happiness Engineer, clinical hypnotherapist, speaker, and author of the highest rated dating book on Amazon for 4 years, “The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible”, Ali is a highly educated expert based in California.
Check Ali online at:
Email Ali at: dralib@taoofdating.com
Shoe Dog – Nike Founder Phil Knight

61 :: Uniting the Masculine + Feminine and Being Human with Christabel Jessica

Episode Description

Christabel Jessica created a beautiful and powerful card deck focused on uniting the divine masculine and feminine energies. When I was introduced to her by a friend I knew we had to get on the line and jam about this important topic!
Before our recording Christabel pulled a few cards and gives us a live reading on the call!
We dive into topics like energetic clearing after intimate encounters, allowing ourselves the space to be human and experience our emotions fully, creating safe spaces physically and energetically and the importance of exploring and expressing both masculine and feminine energies in who we be and how we show up in life.
Join us as we discuss uniting masculine and feminine energy, the duality of life, love and sex, and energetic clearings with spiritual teacher Christabel Jessica on Episode 61, Uniting the Masculine + Feminine and Being Human.

Christabel Jessica – BIO

Christabel is a spiritual teacher and healer with a passion for supporting anyone in a sacred relationship and on a spiritual path. She makes YouTube videos teaching spiritual information based in practically and compassion! As a spiritual practitioner, she is now dedicated to assisting people in undertanding how to heal the troubled dynamics between men and women and how to make the most of being a human! Whether this be through her videos, her one on one sessions via skype or through her Divine Feminine & Masculine Reunited Oracle Deck, merging all forms of duality without judgment is always the priority!
Check out her deck and session availablity on http://christabeljessica.com 
Weekly livestreamed workshops through http://patreon.com/christabeljessica
Two amazing videos about sexual healing:

60 :: Embracing Self Love with Kelsey Avalon

Episode Description

Kelsey Avalon grew up surrounded by mystics, healers and seers in her immediate family, who’s origin is of the Maori tribe from New Zealand.
Her upbringing led her to travel extensively around the world studying ancient rights and rituals, ceremonies and traditions.
Our conversation is a deep dive into the self, self love, self focus in order to create more intimacy in our lives and attract the love and romance that we desire. This is a deep and real exploration into how our actions, intention and energies impact our lives and that of the whole.

Kelsey Avalon – BIO

Now based in the UK, counsellor, bruja, and author Kelsey Avalon has her roots deep in the Maori-Australian culture of folk wisdom and native healing. Practicing the Maori art of Korero in her client practice, Kelsey offers counsel, Tarot, astrology, and bespoke therapeutic sessions.
Kelsey’s book ‘Moon Magic’
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I have always been fascinated by the world of relational experiences. Wondering what makes two people come together, break apart, stay single, attract many suitors and long term relationships, or none at all, what makes some venture into the world of polyamory, while others were born into a culture and society where polygamy is common and if not a choice, something they learn to live with. I’ve been meditating on these topics for quite some time now when in January 2016 an energy larger than me began pulling me forward to explore all of these topics (and more) in an interactive and audio based conversation I could share with the public. Coming off of my first ever 6 month ‘man-pause’ (not menopause…. a MAN pause) I figured it was the perfect time to launch the Ignite Intimacy podcast!

What I believe to be true based on my experiences and conversations with others is that is that we as a collective society are not having enough transparent conversations about these topics, issues and desires. By bringing this conversation to a larger audience, with the intention to create more transparency and dialogue around these topics, there is a profound evolution that can (and will) occur. I know that our world will be a better place when more of us choose to stop living within the framework of a ‘lie’ and live in alignment with who we truly are at the core. I look forward to seeing a world where more of us choose to live ‘out’ about who we are as relational, intimate and sexual creatures, than ‘in’ where many choose to hide behind the guise of what is acceptable by society’s or our community’s standards. I have a feeling that when we can level the playing field and realize that most likely every human being has been impacted in some way shape or form by some aspect of this conversation, even if by a twinge of jealousy, that our world, and our relationships will benefit tremendously. 


This podcast is for informational purposes only. Nothing in the podcast constitutes medical or other professional advice. Guests of this podcast express their own opinions, experiences, and conclusions. Their beliefs and views may not reflect our own. Ignite Intimacy deals with adult subject matter that may offend or trigger some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. You may not edit, modify, or redistribute this podcast. Ignite Intimacy assumes no liability for any of your activities in connection with this podcast or for your use of this podcast in connection with your website, computer, or playback device.